Essay About Close Family Ties
As seen with Angell and his best friend from his earlier years, they considered themselves to be family, even though they were not blood related. But with every type of ‘family’ you have, it almost always seems like someone will always find something wrong with family or someone to be angry at, no matter if they have a good reason to be angry or not. This is something that happens all the time in families and can be seen in Dominick Dunne’s article, “A Death in the Family”. In “A Death in the Family”, Dunne talks about how the recent death of his brother, John, from prostate cancer, made him reminisce about how before his diagnosis of Johns cancer they had a very up and down relationship that hadn’t always been the greatest. For the most part, they did have a good relationship but after becoming business partners in the film industry, it took a toll on the two of them that eventually led them to end working together. With many other factors as well, they didn’t speak for many years but with John’s cancer diagnosis changed everything for both. The diagnosis made them realize that all the fights and grudges they had from years earlier didn’t matter anymore because with the news of something big like cancer, makes you realize that there are more important things in life than any grudges you may have had from years before.
In the essay "The Color of Family Ties" by Naomi Gerstel and Natalia Sarksian, the authors assert that traditional nuclear families are not the only ones capable of supportive relationships and strong family connections. In the other hand, minority families also discover that their families illustrate the most supportive relationships and strongest family ties. According to Gerstel and Sarksian, they states "Black and Latino/a, especially Puerto Rican families are more disorganized than White families, and that their families ties are weaker" (47). People usually believe Black and Latino/a are weaker and more disorganized than Whites. But the authors also point out "Minority individuals are more likely to live in extended family homes than Whites and in many ways more likely to help out their aging parents, grandparents, adult children, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles, and other skin" (48). In my opinion, I agree with this statement and I believe untraditional families are more likely to live with extended family than Whites. In "An Indian Story" by Roger Jack, it talks about nontraditional families with supportive relationships and strong family ties, which is a good example to describe of minority.
In "An Indian Story" by Roger Jack is an example of family solidarity and care giving within a minority family. When Jack was just a young boy, his mother died, then his father remarried and started a new family that made the boy uncomfortable with his living situation. After that, he decided to go living with his late mother's sister, Aunt Greta. It is an evident that even before he decided to move with Greta, Jack was very close to her when he stated, "I walked to Aunt Greta's house and asked if I could move in with her since I had already spend so much time with her anyway"(53). This is our first example of the strong ties to extended family in this story. As the story progresses we learn that Greta has sacrificed not only for her nephew but for her father as well.
Greta had been married for a long time but her husband just died five years into their marriage. The reason why Greta and her husband never had any children and she never remarried was because she took care of her father after her mother died. The fact that Greta looked after her father demonstrates another tight family bond and support for one another but it was also evident that the two share a close relationship. The author states, "She [Greta] had so much love and knowledge to share, which she passed on to me naturally and freely" (53). Hence, tradition was very important to Greta's family as well as their Indian culture and Greta shared it with Jack. During the years, Jack and his aunt form an even stronger bond and she became a mother to him as they shared many adventures...
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